How To Motivate Anyone, Including Yourself- Part 2
Dear Friend,
I’ve been thinking about motivation for 30 years, first for myself, then for you.
Here’s what I found. We already have all the motivation we need. Where? Inside.
If you’re skeptical I understand. But hear me out. You’ve already motivated yourself in the past, whether it was to pass a test, muster up the courage to speak to that attractive person at the club, or to get a new job. What if you could tap into unlimited, sustainable motivation?
That’s what this post/podcast is about. Now, watch/listen above, or read below for how the most successful people find their everlasting motivation.
All my best,
Peter ❤️
Motivation
Create a compelling vision.
Know what you want and why. Get emotional about it- Emotions drive human behavior, followed up by logic.
Motivation- What do you love about your: (what already motivates you?)
Work: Meeting new people, learning, sharing, connecting
Life: 5 quality minutes per day with family
Play: fun, laughing, reading, gardening, intimacy
Below is a sample of a True Self form I created to help my clients get what they want. Answer these questions and let me know what happens. It may surprise you ;-)
My Vision (Purpose, Goal, Outcome)
______________________________________________________________________________
Do you believe this is possible? Yes ___ No ___ Maybe ___
Answer why this must happen: (Pleasure: keep this positive)
______________________________________________________________________________
What does it mean if it doesn’t happen: (Pain: this is negative, use strong language)
______________________________________________________________________________
My Excuses (beliefs) _____________________________________________________________
My top 5 Values 1____________ 2___________ 3__________ 4__________ 5___________
2. Reframe Everything
Frank my therapist taught me this- No matter what happens to me, what I see, whom I encounter, if I can find the benefit in it, my life will be better.
Try it. The next time someone cuts you off, criticizes you, misinterprets your intentions, ignores you, what message is the universe/God giving you? What good can come of it. How can this benefit you and your life?
“Successful people ask better questions, and as a result, get better answers.”
BONUS
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About Peter Kofitsas MS, PT
Testimonial
“Peter delivered what was by far the best one-hour presentation that our audience has ever seen. Full of energy, entertainment and mind-altering knowledge, he helped set the stage for all of us to rethink our daily habits. His session may honestly be the best I’ve ever attended, the perfect blend of knowledge and showmanship! He conducted a health and wellness session during our Mazda USA’s Northeast Region 2023 Field Meeting. Peter’s presentation was informative, enlightening, and entertaining. He used examples that resonated with all attendees and provided information we could all use in our everyday lives. He is an excellent speaker who got the audience engaged and excited.”
Deb Eliopoulos, Manager, Regional Marketing, Mazda North American Operations
PROFESSIONAL
Peter Kofitsas MS, PT is a Speaker, Author, International Life & Health Coach, Culinary Nutritionist, Physical Therapist, Food/Restaurant Consultant, and former Scholarship Football Athlete. He’s also been called, “The Missing Link” in employee wellbeing. As an expert for the media, he has appeared on ABC, FOX, MSN, TLC, and in Fitness magazine. He’s the author of 3 books, including, Shop, Cook, Eat. He’s also the creator of the 5 Minutes to Fitness+ Program, a revolutionary lifestyle program for achieving optimal health which has been featured on QVC and FOX. He’’s been helping companies assist their employees in being healthier and finding balance during the Covid- 19 pandemic.
CV
Nutrition Degree, Magna Cum Laude, Montclair State University
Physical Therapy degree, Master of Science, New York Medical College
College Lecturer- nutrition, exercise, physical therapy, kinesiology
Creator- 5 Minutes to Fitness+, Fit Friends’ Revolution
Author; Shop, Cook, Eat, Core Energy Program, & Live Better Journal
Food/Restaurant Consultant- Hospitality Training, Sustainable Menu Design, Recipe Development
Client List / Appearances
GE • Goldman Sachs • KPMG • Verizon • Metropolitan Museum of Art • Sony • UPS • Quest Diagnostics • Whole Foods • Louis Vuitton • Moët Hennessy • Working Mother • Kellari Group • Serafina Group • China Grill Management • Union Square Hospitality Group • The Episcopal Church • St Barnabas Health Care Systems • HDMS • Grocery Haulers • NY Staffing Assoc • Assoc of Health Care Recruiters
